Dating someone older than you can teach you a lot about life. It can help you better understand what it's like to be a certain age, gain perspective on the current phase you're in, or realize that you actually don't like a large age gap when it comes to relationships. There's a lot to consider about dating someone who's older than you are, because your relationship may need some added communication to bridge the age gap. In case you were curious, here are six different perspectives from people who have experienced dating someone older. Dating someone older taught me a ton about myself and what I want in a relationship.
11 Signs You Should Try Dating Someone Older Than You
What is the Rule for Dating Someone Older? - Natalie Workman
When my year-old boyfriend unceremoniously dumped me after having a threesome with two girls I knew well enough to say hello to in the street, I fell into a spiral of despair. It was early spring. I could feel it all day and all night: achingly hollow and full of acid. I drank coffee and worked out five times a week. I was pretty hostile to the idea. That said, there are also some legitimate psychological reasons why younger women go for older men.
When I was 25, I spent a year dating a man 20 years older than me. The Older Man was also my editor, which added a power imbalance to the mix—a dynamic we all know can be equal parts problematic and irresistible. I wonder: What do we gain and lose from dating someone of a different generation? The Older Man was a peculiar person. For one, he wore silk onesie pajamas that he meticulously ironed to have a crease down the center of the pant leg.
Get out your calculators, folks. So the oldest person I should date, or marry, should be no older than Hmmm…how old is Brandon, again? But who likes to live by rules?