Sudden, desperate quickies against the kitchen counter can be insanely hot, but the best sex is rich and soulful. That kind of transcendent sex where you feel completely connected to your partner — that's what we're aiming for this week. And, hell, in life, for that matter. These positions harness the bonding powers of science, neurochemistry, and things that just feel amazing to bring you closer as couple.
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But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist , to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions will remain anonymous. Please send your sex and relationship inquiries to tips bustle.
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The simplest way to add some variety to your sex life is to try out various sex positions. But before we delve into less typical sex positions and variations on some of the old classics like missionary , cowgirl , spooning , and doggy style , we have to ask you one question: What are you hoping to achieve by changing up sex positions? This will guide how you approach this list of 50 sex positions, explains Ian Kerner, Ph. Then maybe you want to try out a position that feels impulsive. If so, look for positions where you can push your partner up against the wall or have sex on a hard surface.
When it comes to sex, the sexual spectrum is very long and very interesting. There are those couples who like to keep things simple, basic, and without any fear of throwing out their back during some advanced sexual move , then there are those who prefer to keep things new and refreshing at all times. These are the couples who aren't looking to spice up their long-term relationship , but couples who live and breathe experimental sex, and are damn lucky they found each other — because some of the places these couples go, others wouldn't dare to tread. It's safe to call these types of couples sexual soulmates. If you're lucky enough to find someone who's just as experimental as you, in regards to sex, then first of all: Congratulations!